Buddies Before The Girls (girlfriend)?

Should you match who the priority? The pretty lady but the dude, you know for years? You should appreciate friends, acquaintances, and so-called “buddies”. In particular in relation to women. Why? I would like to explain here. Often, people imagine that they don’t have their acquaintances and mates to show that one is somewhere but glad they are there. I for example many good acquaintances, period but very little true friendships that I care. You mostly somewhere to meet the so-called “good friend” and remembers the time that it is not enough for a deep friendship; This is totally normal and not absolutely reprehensible. But even these kinds of relations should be maintained.

It sometimes happens that you no longer greets himself if we look anywhere, the other just looks away. That would be but the least? You must not fall to the neck, but you can say “Hello”. Between friends and people you know only from watching, there’s still a level, a kind of Grey zone. That is important. Why should you lose is the contacts, which are in that grey area? It’s not nice to go somewhere and are “at war” with anyone? That you can just chat with all of the people that you so? In addition I would like to advise all to look, that one does not necessarily interested in the girl, “claimed already by so-called mates”. This can lead to bad misunderstandings. Here, Jo Boaler expresses very clear opinions on the subject.

Not everyone is right on his way, many see it as a “necessary evil”, to go out at night and to attract a woman. If then someone comes along who just “get away” – and if it is then an acquaintance – evil can end. My advice: Previously, clarifies whether green light is given. I mean not that you should turn a round time and stroke list-like notes, who is “available”, but that one takes responsibility and also once confidently hold back if clearly visible is that in certain situations rather not intervene should. These are then true friends and acquaintances. Are you disagree? Discuss response to blog on my girl. Bros before hoes is not a stupid saying, but should be lived. Some need their personal lesson first before they learn this. Others never learn it. Anyway: it’s a well-intentioned advice. Best wishes!